The second agreement offers readers the opportunity to manage the hurtful treatments of others that they can experience in life. She argues that it is important to have a strong self-concept and not to have to rely on the opinions of others to be satisfied and satisfied with their self-concept. This agreement also allows readers to understand the idea that each individual has a unique vision of the world that changes his or her own perception and that a person`s actions and beliefs are a projection of his or her personal reality.  Ruiz believes that anger, jealousy, envy and even sadness can subside or dissipate as soon as an individual stops taking things in person.  The fourth agreement seems to make it very easy for ourselves, if we allow ourselves to stop judging and if we do not make assumptions about our capabilities. But there is another element of this agreement which, according to Ruiz, greatly increases our chance: if we respect these four agreements together and live after, we will have a good life. You`ll control your life 100%. If you fall, if you try to maintain these agreements, do not judge yourself. Get up and close the deal. If the agreements are sometimes too simplified, it is still a small book with some heavy ideas. Focusing on one of these chords can dramatically improve your life and reduce stress; Focusing on all four can really change a lot of people`s lives. If followed in a general and non-fanatical way, these proposals can help you reduce a large amount of stress by helping you avoid patterns of thought and behavior that create frustration, accusations, hurt emotions and other negative emotions.
The structure of the four chords is like an oreo: the chords are wedged between spiritual leadership and thought. At the beginning of the book, Ruiz begins with a Toltec mythology and the introduction of the term “the dream of the world”: it is an important condition for understanding the meaning of the chords themselves. If you get into the habit of not taking anything personally, avoid a lot of trouble in your life. Your anger, jealousy and jealousy will disappear, and even your sadness will disappear if you don`t take things personally. The fourth agreement is one that allows the other three to become entrenched habits. This is the action of the first three. In the first part of this 2-part video, we learn how the “domestication” of men and how all the rules and values of our family and society are imposed on us by a system of punishment and reward.